
Hey guys, welcome back! I hope everyone is enjoying their Summer, or whatever season you are celebrating this time of the year. I’m personally looking forward to Christmas in July as Christmas is kind of an obsession of mine. I already checked the schedule of the two classic movie stations we have here and one is doing all holiday movies all day including three versions of A Christmas Carol, so I’m all set. And just to be clear, I don’t do Hallmark movies. I just can’t watch them. I had one slip last season but that’s it. I swear. I’m also appreciating the fact that the 25th is falling on a day when we are expecting 105 degree weather, so you know, there’s that.
Anywhoooooo….I’ve been on a writing roll again. I’ve figured out the best way to progress right now is to pass by the parts I’m having trouble with and keep going with the story. There’s so many scenes I want to get to and the ones giving me issues? Well, I’m going to have to revisit them after the rest is out of my head. Which of course means I’ll have to do a lot of rewriting once I incorporate these things, but that’s the life, right? The rest is flowing a little better than it has been lately and at least that’s something.
I just hit a milestone moment in the book. As it is a romance, there is a little bit of spice to it. I mentioned in a previous post that I had written a scene that was a bit spicier than I had planned (now saved for a possible future book). I did want to have characters share a good moment and I think I was able to nail it…no pun intended. However, there is a voice in the back of my head telling myself to remember to tell any family members who will read this thing to skip over the pages involved. I may be an adult, but every now and then, I freak myself out about what my parents will think. 😂
Speaking of, if you’ve read the post I did about my wanting to use a pen name, I hath cleared it with both mom and dad and they are fully on board. Yay! (You’d never know that I will turn 55 in November. As mentally I will forever be 36.)
So the first hurdle where that is concerned has now been written. I can breathe a sigh of relief that it’s now done as it is quite the pivotal plot point. It may sound benign, but with books out there ranging from deep dark romance with lots of kinks to the mild mention of a chaste kiss, there is a broad range of how romances can go. Again I admit my first go around surprised me as the darker side came out in the first draft of the scene but scaling it back, being a bit more on the romantic side, I think I hit the nail on the head. This is a book that also deals with a bit of a serious issue and one that needed to be worked through. Remember, not every romance is a Hallmark movie. Some do deal with real life issues that need to be out there for awareness and as I have tried to keep 90% of this on the lighter, funnier side, life is not always light and funny. There’s always that 10% lurking in the shadows that we all have to deal with.
Because I have been writing for hours and hours for days on end, I’ve created my own little bubble for myself. I live a very Groundhog Day life. I pretty much do the exact same thing over and over, the only real differences are what book I’m reading and what new scenes I’m typing out. I hardly know what friends are talking about when they say the’ve seen this or that on Netflix these days. Although I did finally see a documentary I’ve been waiting to see and have another in my watchlist on Prime. I am also an insane Yankees fan and do make sure to catch all the night games. (I say insane because we all have to be insane to keep up with the team these days, but third generation fan here so I shall suffer until the next ring is won. #fireBoone)
I know many may see my life as boring but I’m actually pretty happy. Considering I can’t do much with my illnesses and live on my bed with the rare day out at a bookstore or the always ‘exciting’ trip to cvs to grab prescriptions, I’ve managed to run two (struggling) businesses, write one full book and 3/4 of this new one as well as reading like I’ve never read before. Do I miss my old life? Going out every night with friends, having fun and knowing everyone on my favorite street? (The one with the bars.) Of course I do. That being said, all those nights out, all those people I’ve met and those who are still in my circle? Alllll fodder for characters. My first book that I do hope I will get back to editing after this one is completed, is my tribute to them. Almost all characters are somehow based on my friends, either with names, characteristics or both. This new book may have some basis on those I know, or on myself in some ways, I’m just thankful I have this outlet to create a place that gives me an escape to go to and relive what it was like to be out and about. To be able to walk down the street and see folks I know, sit and have a drink with them or even get some advice from the friendly neighborhood bartender.
If we can’t have the life we want, we can create it. Whether if it is making up a story, or actually DOING that which we have wanted to do forever. Want to paint? Do it. Want to sing, go to karaoke and get started or take lessons! Want to run a marahon? Start training! Before I got sick, I once trained for my first 5k (walking, could never run) by starting in my bedroom! Eventually I started walking all over town and by the time the race came around I had gotten my time down from over 23 minutes a mile to 15:20. No matter your goal, it always takes that first step.
And that is where I will leave you for today. Once again I thank you for being here and I hope that my little rambling motivations give you the boost you need or at least a smile. We all need that now and then I’m hoping I can be there for you. 🙂
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